...of my whole life
Sometimes I hear young people say so-and-so was the best whatever of my whole life. I've said it, too. When I was younger, I didn't realize that life hadn't even started yet. Even now, I know that telling younger people that life really doesn't start until you are well into your 20s or 30s sounds ridiculous. Unbelievable. Absolute garbage. But it's true, and I wish that there was a way I could tell every young person. But young people don't find stats as cool as I do. They don't want to listen to an old happy person talk about the pleasure of watching their small children do homework at the kitchen table or how fulfilling it is to grow an avocado tree from a seed. They need info quick and now and to their liking. I often wonder if there is a way to get the point across without sounding like an old codger stumbling over "when I was your age..."
I think kids are the same as we were when we were kids, but with different surroundings. They know so much more about so many different things than we did. They have access to anything they want to know within milliseconds of typing in a word. They don't even have to finish typing that word and the world responds with information. It's that fast. Processing all that information can sometimes be scary and intimidating. Their brains can sometimes be overloaded with information about things they know exist, but haven't actually participated in themselves, giving them false senses of experience. They think they are worldly. But they are just kids.
I try my best to step back into my own kids' shoes and remember what it was like when everything I did was the best thing of my whole life. I remember that that statement was actually true at the time. When I was 12 I entered a cooking contest and thought winning 2nd place was the best thing in my whole life. Then in high school when the guy I liked called me, that was the best thing in my whole life.
Then I think about now and how I still have the ability to say that about experiences. What does that mean? It means that when I was young, those experiences that were the best ones of my whole life have gotten even better. Now I can cook for my family. Now I am married to the man of my dreams. These are the best things of my whole life.
The point is, the best things keep getting better and better with age. They don't stop once you say it once. You can continue to have the best every single day and that best will always be better than the one before. It's important for kids to know that.
Bad days happen, but so do good days. So do the BEST days.